• @Ahrotahntee@lemmy.ca
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      It’s not just you. Second hand embarrassment is just as bad as first hand embarrassment for me.

      It’s a wildly unpopular take, but it’s the reason I can’t watch most of Steve Carell’s stuff, including the office.

      • Agreed. I like a few Office episodes, but I never really got into it. I’m also not a fan of self-deprecating humor, despite making a lot of self-deprecating jokes myself.

        We exist, but I think we’re in the minority.

      • noodle (he/him)
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        I watched all of The Office, but I had to keep actively reminding myself that those situations aren’t real and that they’re paid actors who are expecting everything that’s happening, in order not to wince my face inside out.

      • @Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
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        Second hand embarrassment is just as bad as first hand embarrassment for me.

        That’s what makes it so great!

    • @Boozilla@sh.itjust.works
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      355 months ago

      I don’t like it, either. And I’m not a fan of the “obsessed with sex while shaming other people for being obsessed with sex” vibe of shit like this.

      • Yup, haven’t watched a sitcom in many years.

        I used to love sitcoms (Seinfeld, King of Queens, IT Crowd, etc), but I guess it’s just not what I’m looking for anymore. If I want comedy, I usually go with stand-up these days.

    • madjo
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      Call me overly optimistic, but I would hope that such a program would stop men from doing such creepy behaviour.

    • @animephantasm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      55 months ago

      I am the same way. My husband loves I Think You Should Leave. I cannot stand how horrible and awkward it is. Like its not just not funny it’s actively uncomfortable to watch. Which makes it even funnier to him >.>

    • ObjectivityIncarnate
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      Nope, I hate it too.

      Also, this premise kind of sucks as a ‘game’. Unless mom has experience with being hit on by her son, how would she have any inkling to identify which of the messages is his? ‘Oh, that’s my boy, I know he’s into the massive tits’, lol.

      This is just ‘let’s make fun of men for being thirsty’ thinly-veiled misandry, plenty of women have sent plenty of cringe DMs to men they’ve lusted after, too.

    • @sfbing@lemmy.world
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      I agree, but this wouldn’t be about awkward – it would be vengeance. Just rewards. Assholes getting their due.

    • @UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
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      Awkwardness is incredibly cheap to film and turn around into content. Less that you find it entertaining and more that you’ll fixate on it as a clip in a long line of similar looking content. HBO / Discovery Channel love this kind of low-rent reality TV, because it gets people into watching the first episode purely on shock value. Also great for getting the name recognition of the show up among the critically lucrative “I’m too mature for cartoons but not mature enough to watch normal TV” 13-21 demographic.

      Literally the only thing that matters is whether your cursor hovers over it or your scroll pauses for a second as you pass over it. The Algorithm will flag this as “We have your attention” and feed you an increasing quantity of the slop until you give in or you stop using whatever media service is delivering it.

      • @DontMakeMoreBabies@lemm.ee
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        I hate cringe comedy because it makes me feel awkward… But I’m very much not an empathetic person (for whatever reason, I don’t really ‘do’ affective empathy).

        Edit: Mod you’re a little bitch. 👍

        • @deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz
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          25 months ago

          it makes me feel awkward

          Literally empathy: I’m experiencing an emotion because someone else is experiencing that emotion.

          Not to be confused with sympathy: I noticed you’re experiencing an emotion.

            • @Croquette@sh.itjust.works
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              That’s exactly what empathy is. Not sure why you get your panties in a bunch.

              You feel what the other person is feeling even if it’s not happening to you.

            • Thats empathy, I have had to do a lot of lessons due to my autism. Thats empathy are particular type sure but its certainly empathic by nature. There are far more ways for social traits to function than how the majority claims they do, also I am convinced that mist folks are lying for whatever reason when questioned.

  • @danekrae@lemmy.world
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    “No that’s not my son… David always writes the whole thing when he is texting me, never shortens it to ‘WAP’.”

  • @Starb3an@lemmy.world
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    Last episode in the series is just DMs from executives, congressmen, and anyone in a position of power

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    Feels like we’re edging into TLC territory. Can the contestants be very obviously disabled or made up to look particularly grotesque in any particular way? The show needs an extra “ick” factor to properly sell it.

    “Trail Trash Texts” or “DMs from My <Insert Series of Synonyms to Slurs Here>”

    Then it can be a hot topic of daytime news media. Maybe see if you can even get it sued or censored or find someone who was fired for watching it on the job. The show will do huge numbers.

    • Omega
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      DMs from my unique son, every week an individual with an obvious fault becomes the villain of the show

  • @ZoopZeZoop@lemmy.world
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    I wouldn’t subject the young women to it. Why make the target of the messages have to be involved. Pay someone who knows what they are getting into and can quit whenever they feel like it.

    • @splinter@lemm.ee
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      Pay someone who knows what they are getting into and can quit whenever they feel like it.

      How do you think these young women would appear on the show? This may come as a surprise, but despite the 3 letter name, MTV lacks widespread intelligence gathering capacity and definitely can’t read your text messages without your consent.

      I’m fairly confident that anybody appearing on this show would have sent in an application to the company, and signed a non-indentured contract.

    • @deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz
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      The better approach would be to have an actor read the messages and the reality show contestants are the mothers (and sons).

      That being said, I’m still not watching it.

  • KillingTimeItself
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    wait, this is actually sick as fuck, someone needs to turn this into a reality show, because i would probably unironically watch this.

  • @Aggravationstation@feddit.uk
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    Closest things I’ve seen are Creepy Text Theatre and I can’t remember what they called it but Radio 1 in the UK used to have a phone number women could give out to guys who were creeping them out and they’d play the voicemail messages on the air.

  • Th4tGuyII
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    Genuinely such a good idea - though it’d likely have to be censored to fuck if it goes up pre-watershed, which would take some of the joy out of it

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    Just add some nice, wholesome DMs to the mix and watch the chaos unfold