• @Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    Selkirk said she and Allan are both discussing a legal challenge to the liver transplant guidelines for those with alcohol use disorder “with people who have their own living donor.” “It’s not fair and it’s not right, and hopefully we’ll change that policy,” Selkirk said.

    Even if her partner could donate his own liver, it should still go to a better recipient. If anything he should be donating anyways to honor her and save a life

    • DefederateLemmyMl
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      1710 months ago

      Even if her partner could donate his own liver, it should still go to a better recipient

      That’s nonsense, because the partner would not donate his liver if it went to someone else.

      • @JasonDJ@lemmy.zip
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        410 months ago

        Right? Like I would donate my liver to my kid, or my spouse, without even questioning it.

        But if the doctor told me they can’t have it (for some reason other than incompatibility), and they died? Fuck them. I’d de-register as an organ donor out of spite.

        • @driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br
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          410 months ago

          Donating an organ is a pretty invasive operation that can have a lot of complications, doctors aren’t only taking the recipient health, but the donor too, in the equation.

          • DefederateLemmyMl
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            210 months ago

            We’re explicitly talking about a situation where the donor is suitable. So I don’t know what kind of information you’re trying to add here.

    • @Notyou@sopuli.xyz
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      510 months ago

      Maybe he should, but maybe he is thinking “Fuck them, we tried to participate in the system. We had a living donor to go. What? Oh you have a ‘better’ recipient? Well, guess who doesn’t want to donate to a system that failed my loved one.”

      • @Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world
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        110 months ago

        The system didn’t fail, it worked as intended. If but mid 30s you’ve destroyed your liver with your alcohol addiction, it’s almost guaranteed you’ll slide back.

        Recipients can’t drink ever, and have to take meds for life. She was not a good candidate for a transplant.

        • @Notyou@sopuli.xyz
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          110 months ago

          I agree. I understand the rules and it makes sense to me. The people going through it don’t care. The husband going through this loss doesn’t care about other people needing his living donor liver, or there being better recipients. He would view it (I imagine) as “why should I donate when they didn’t help my wife?”