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@SunlitSorceress@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish • 8 months ago

People in their 40s and 50s with no children, how does it feel?

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People in their 40s and 50s with no children, how does it feel?

@SunlitSorceress@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish • 8 months ago
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  • Scrubbles
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    8 months ago

    Shout out to !childfree@lemmy.world

    Edit: k, idk why you downvoted me, was trying to show you another sub with an audience directly for this question that you may want to also ask, but k go ahead and downvote me OP.

    • @tkw8@lemm.ee
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      55•8 months ago

      Didn’t downvote you but it’s probably bc Reddit’s original childfree subreddit is a special kind of toxic hellhole; even for Reddit… which is saying something.

      • Scrubbles
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        29•8 months ago

        Most of Reddit was a toxic hellhole. It’s why I’m not on Reddit anymore.

      • @GetOffMyLan@programming.dev
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        This one is relatively as well.

    • @rand_alpha19@moist.catsweat.com
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      deleted by creator

      • Scrubbles
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        6•8 months ago

        I believe the way that link style works is that it does that only if your instance does not have it locally. Here on the fediverse we need one person to subscribe before it will show up on your local instance correctly

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          • Scrubbles
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            Ah I’d guess that, I’m pretty sure Lemmy devs made that !community@instance.tld syntax

    • @bobs_monkey@lemm.ee
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      It seems like in almost every thread, there are at least one or two cranky individuals that just downvote for the hell of it.

      • فریدون حسینی
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        Downvotes on lemmy are pure spam. Good instances block them.

        • @chunkystyles@sopuli.xyz
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          3•8 months ago

          I regularly down vote things. I up vote a lot more than that, though. I’m sure the ratio is at least 3:1 or higher for up to down.

          Are my down votes spam?

          • فریدون حسینی
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            Yes in my opinion which is why they’re turned off on the instance I use.

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