• Realitätsverlust
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    344 days ago

    That’s the right thing to do. Making it easy for people to accept that they were wrong makes it much easier to pull support from the opposing party. If you constantly ridicule, mock or insult them, they are much more likely to stick with their opinion simply because they do not want to accept that you were right.

    A vast majority on lemmy should learn this aswell.

    • @aidan@lemmy.worldM
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      94 days ago

      A vast majority on lemmy should learn this aswell.

      The vindictiveness and hate for anyone who slightly disagrees by some on here is only matched by Reddit users. It makes sense I guess

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        4 days ago

        That’s exactly it, it’s actual hate. It’s not just “bro your opinion is stupid, you’re a moron, piss off” and be done with it. Nah, many people on here genuinely hate other opinions. They’re fully adopting a fascist mindset while thinking they’re on the “right side”.

        It’s genuinely worrying to see that ngl.

    • @jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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      24 days ago

      I feel like this is a deep flaw in humanity. That most people would rather continue eating literal shit than admit they were wrong.

      • @gradual@lemmings.world
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        I’ve thought about this at length and the conclusion I’ve reached is that people tend to lose ‘authority’ when they admit they’re wrong on a subject.

        Essentially, once you’ve believed something that was incorrect, your peers will be more skeptical of your beliefs in the future and they can always point back to “remember when you were wrong about x?”

        The stronger you’ve held this incorrect belief, the harder it is to admit you were wrong.

        If they never admit they were wrong, though, then they never have to deal with humiliation.

      • Realitätsverlust
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        34 days ago

        Many people would be willing to admit that they’re wrong, however, if the “opposing” side is constantly mockign and ridiculing you, yeah, I can see why people don’t want to admit that.

        • @jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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          34 days ago

          I wonder what sort of studies have been done on this. I found a few with a quick search about admitting being wrong- IT seems to correlate with humility like you would expect. Also admitting fault also sometimes makes people like you more, contrary to the belief that people will think you suck if you admit fault. Though maybe not for politicians, oddly.