I’ve never blocked anyone. 14 years of reddit and now Lemmy and there has never been a reason to. I find it weird when people do it.
I get it if someone is harrasing you, but an anonymous disagreement? Meh, whatever. If I am done I just quit responding and move on.
I suppose being online since the 80’s gives you a little bit of perspective. Don’t feed the trolls, everyone is a liar, and nothing anyone says matters unless you want it to.
pizzacake has been critical of alt-right chuds, and as such, is a target of harassment…
you can just move on, this person is being followed… big differences.
trolls will latch onto people and dox and harass them for years… blocking early and often is a good idea.
I have seen people have some obnoxious weird idea about one thing and be brilliant about another. Not everyone, some are just trolls, but some people are really. Good at something interesting and have stupid ideas about others.
I am not so quick to just write everyone off, but I also find it easy to just not read things I don’t care about.
There’s a couple I’ve blocked, because they’re simply incapable of having any type of discussion unless you’re rabidly in agreement with them, and they immediately turn to insulting anyone who disagrees.
Yeah, same here. I just don’t see the need to block people. Some might have a different opinion on one topic than me, but be no in agreement or have something worthwile to say on another.
If I was activly harassed or anything, I’d use the block function to protect myself from that. Never had to do that so far.
Anybody who immediatelly starts insulting others gets blocked.
I’m not interested in watching somebody’s public self-masturbation shows: insulting others achieves nothing but give those doing the insulting the pleasure of thinking that they’re hurting others - it won’t convince the person they’re replying to and it won’t convince the audience (since an insult is as much an argument for a viewpoint as a punching somebody’s face), so directly insulting random strangers is only for the pleasure of those doing it.
Further, people whose default reaction to disagreeing with others is to try and hurt them don’t really deserve any of my time.
Being deep down in an argument, losing one’s patience and ending up throwing insults is one thing, just being obnoxious and insulting from the get go is something else altogether and betrays a very different kind of character, one that there is no point in listening to.
You have to read some of it until you get to the insults and mentally go “Oh, it’s one of those”, unless you have a mental list of usernames for those people in Lemmy (in all fairness, they’re very few) or use an interface were you can tag users and see the tags (but tagging or blocking is about the same amount of work).
If you never had to block anyone, you might be in a more lucky spot. Just because you don’t have or see a problem, does not mean the problem does not exist. Just a reminder.
It’s the same as with racism, for example. If you’re not part of a minority, or hide it well enough, you don’t see the racism.
None of us want Lemmy to be a Nazi bar, right? So if we see a Nazi on here and all of us block them today, they can circlejerk in a comment tomorrow and a newly registered user will see no one downvoted them or called them out.*
As a privileged person, I feel an obligation not to block anyone, and even feel I’m abdicating my duty a little by not browsing logged out sometimes to make sure Nazis can’t block me and spread hate without counterpoints lodged against them.
*would a “widely-blocked user” tag help? Not if they create a new account after every other post, & scummy users could mitigate by proactively blocking using “SJW user” lists, but it’s an idea
The only weirdo I know that blocks people left and right is one that signs every comment with a “no AI license” thingy. Anyone that correctly comments how that’s useless/pointless because bots ignore that is blocked
I’ve never blocked anyone. 14 years of reddit and now Lemmy and there has never been a reason to. I find it weird when people do it.
I get it if someone is harrasing you, but an anonymous disagreement? Meh, whatever. If I am done I just quit responding and move on.
I suppose being online since the 80’s gives you a little bit of perspective. Don’t feed the trolls, everyone is a liar, and nothing anyone says matters unless you want it to.
And never use social media.
pizzacake has been critical of alt-right chuds, and as such, is a target of harassment…
you can just move on, this person is being followed… big differences.
trolls will latch onto people and dox and harass them for years… blocking early and often is a good idea.
I get that this is a specific experience. It just made me think about how so many people go for the block button on silly sites like this one…
how would you know that unless you get blocked a lot on “silly” sites like this? if it’s so silly, why are you wasting your time on it?
I block people liberally. I agree 100% with the comic. And blocking idiots is good for my health.
I have seen people have some obnoxious weird idea about one thing and be brilliant about another. Not everyone, some are just trolls, but some people are really. Good at something interesting and have stupid ideas about others.
I am not so quick to just write everyone off, but I also find it easy to just not read things I don’t care about.
There’s a couple I’ve blocked, because they’re simply incapable of having any type of discussion unless you’re rabidly in agreement with them, and they immediately turn to insulting anyone who disagrees.
Yeah, same here. I just don’t see the need to block people. Some might have a different opinion on one topic than me, but be no in agreement or have something worthwile to say on another.
If I was activly harassed or anything, I’d use the block function to protect myself from that. Never had to do that so far.
Anybody who immediatelly starts insulting others gets blocked.
I’m not interested in watching somebody’s public self-masturbation shows: insulting others achieves nothing but give those doing the insulting the pleasure of thinking that they’re hurting others - it won’t convince the person they’re replying to and it won’t convince the audience (since an insult is as much an argument for a viewpoint as a punching somebody’s face), so directly insulting random strangers is only for the pleasure of those doing it.
Further, people whose default reaction to disagreeing with others is to try and hurt them don’t really deserve any of my time.
Being deep down in an argument, losing one’s patience and ending up throwing insults is one thing, just being obnoxious and insulting from the get go is something else altogether and betrays a very different kind of character, one that there is no point in listening to.
I guess I just don’t read it. It’s that simple.
You have to read some of it until you get to the insults and mentally go “Oh, it’s one of those”, unless you have a mental list of usernames for those people in Lemmy (in all fairness, they’re very few) or use an interface were you can tag users and see the tags (but tagging or blocking is about the same amount of work).
If you never had to block anyone, you might be in a more lucky spot. Just because you don’t have or see a problem, does not mean the problem does not exist. Just a reminder.
It’s the same as with racism, for example. If you’re not part of a minority, or hide it well enough, you don’t see the racism.
Or so I’ve heard. I’m also in a lucky spot.
I’m like @AugustWest@lemm.ee on the no-blocking-ever front.
None of us want Lemmy to be a Nazi bar, right? So if we see a Nazi on here and all of us block them today, they can circlejerk in a comment tomorrow and a newly registered user will see no one downvoted them or called them out.*
As a privileged person, I feel an obligation not to block anyone, and even feel I’m abdicating my duty a little by not browsing logged out sometimes to make sure Nazis can’t block me and spread hate without counterpoints lodged against them.
*would a “widely-blocked user” tag help? Not if they create a new account after every other post, & scummy users could mitigate by proactively blocking using “SJW user” lists, but it’s an idea
I had a long time on Reddit also and I haven’t ever blocked anyone either. But I have blocked subreddits and communities here.
The only weirdo I know that blocks people left and right is one that signs every comment with a “no AI license” thingy. Anyone that correctly comments how that’s useless/pointless because bots ignore that is blocked
Some people make it clear that their ideas are not worth entering my head.
That’s when they get the easy-block.