• @samus12345@lemm.ee
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    382 days ago

    They key thing to note here is he does it because he’s impatient, not because he’s such a nice guy. There is no way he’s not a pushy asshole, even if he hides it behind passive-agressive behavior.

    • @zarkanian@sh.itjust.works
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      121 day ago

      I think it’s more like somebody who doesn’t respect this boundary probably doesn’t respect other boundaries, too. This is just unhinged behavior, sorry. It’s at best profoundly embarrassing.

    • @Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml
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      42 days ago

      You don’t have a clue what his motives are or whether he’s being a pushy asshole or not, you have exactly the same information I do and you’re making baseless assumptions. If what you’re claiming is true then yes it would be a bad thing, fucking duh, but you don’t know that.

      • @samus12345@lemm.ee
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        2 days ago

        My boyfriend’s beige flag is that he gets impatient at restaurants and helps the waitress bring the plates to our table

        Yes, I do know that, because it’s explicitly stated.

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          Lol k, well she also used the word “help”, and he’s smiling in the pic so clearly he’s being nice about. You still lose.

          Also worth noting that I never said anything abour him being impatient, I said you didn’t know he was being a pushy asshole, and you don’t. Being impatient does not in any way require being rude.

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            And I’m sure she said this was a “beige flag” because he’s such a great, thoughtful guy. You’re being incredibly obtuse. This is a post about her boyfriend having sketchy behavior.