• @jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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    891 day ago

    Reminds me of how my (able bodied) mom would drive around looking for a closer parking spot for far longer than it would have taken to just walk from the first available one.

    • @AA5B@lemmy.world
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      16 hours ago

      I hate how much time people waste doing this. Depending on the store, I either park a couple spots from the cart return stations, or enter the back of the lot and park first available. Whatever your goal, wasting time trying to find a spot that meets specific constraints just…. Wastes your time

      At my Costco especially

      • people fight for garage space but there’s a really long ramp for your cart so it’s effectively much farther
      • people fight for the lot by the door, but it small and crowded and choked with both pedestrian and car traffic. I can be parked and in the store before you make one lap
      • main parking is long and skinny, but people only go straight up the main aisles. I just go one aisle over and there are more spots closer in and right by cart return
    • Banana
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      591 day ago

      Literally! Anytime I go to Costco i intentionally go to the furthest spots because they’re likely to be open and I’m fully capable of and enjoy walking.

    • manxu
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      319 hours ago

      My mother used to do that, too. I asked her about it, and she said, “You don’t know how scary it is for a woman to walk a long distance in a parking lot.”

      • @idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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        18 hours ago

        Yeah, I’ll park a while away if it’s daytime, but I do get the creeps when I walk through an empty parking lot at night. I used to live in the US and drive regularly, and now I live in Germany and don’t, but I can therefore completely avoid parking lots even though I’m walking further, which honestly makes me feel a lot less targetable. I suspect the difference in general violence levels between the two countries has more to do with the difference in my perceived safety though.

      • @jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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        115 hours ago

        That could be true in some cases. Not so much when it’s the middle of the day, in rich suburbia, with your family, and there’s a lot of other people around.

    • @apfelwoiSchoppen@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      A former friend I met up with at a pub parked in a handicapped spot because they couldn’t find a spot in less than two blocks. They didn’t have a handicap or a disability vehicle tag. I had biked and walked four blocks just because I liked walking. Stopped being friends with them after that for being so ableist and a general asshole. Really tells you a lot about a person.

      • @Protoknuckles@lemmy.world
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        61 day ago

        [Meme] You park far away because you hate people

        I park far away because I hate people

        Oh shit, we are the same! [/Meme]

    • 𝕱𝖎𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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      61 day ago

      My dad’s like that. One time he came to visit he didn’t like that the closest spot was 2 blocks away, so he drove around until he found a spot 5 or 6 blocks away

    • @motor_spirit@lemmy.world
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      51 day ago

      I had an ex who would do this shit and I’d always be like “well let me out and I’m gonna walk from here, you can go through your ritual and have fun”

      People like wasting tons of time at church too 🤷‍♂️

    • @resipsaloquitur@lemmy.world
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      11 day ago

      My favorite is people who slam on the brakes and make everyone behind them wait for them while they park at the first spot they find at a parking garage (whether the current occupant has left or not).

      Like, there are stairs and/or an elevator. It would take you less time and effort to park next to those and everyone behind you can park at the same time.

      • @A_norny_mousse@feddit.org
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        323 hours ago

        parking garage

        There’s one in a shopping center I go to. The first row is always packed, the second row always has empty spaces. I always go straight for the second row, but I’m always the only person to do so. Thius enables me to park very close to the elevators with no searching, no hassle, no speed bumps. But all other cars kindly go around the whole carousel, no doubt hoping they will find a spot in first row. Which is often further from the elvators than my hassle-free second row spot. People are weird.

        And because that took so long to explain and I just realized it might not be so easy to visualise, here’s a little illustration. The white line is me, the red line is everybody else.