• Chloé 🥕
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      and it’s only you who’s saying that ryedaft was “complaining about a group of people based on sexuality”

      • Deceptichum
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        Oh please, it’s clearly obvious there is nothing heteronormative about hetero people using topping to mean something else. Peoples having a different meaning is not the same as enforcing themselves as the default, it’s not even tangentially related.

        • adr1an
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          Fwiw, I’m hetero and having a girl on top feels like they have more, if not all, control.

          I never subscribed to homosexual dichotomy of tops and bottoms. Long ago, I learnt that there were “active” and “passive” roles.

          I guess it’s generational. Like “old” terms that sound antique or even “wrong”.