• Iron Lynx
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      415 days ago

      Not just gay sex, any sex with power exchange. Can also include completely heterosexual mild BDSM.

      • @ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca
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        415 days ago

        Maybe it’s me being old but it was never outside of gay sex when I was young

        • Iron Lynx
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          215 days ago

          From what I’ve gathered, it’s entirely possible that some previously exclusively gay terms are now more generally applied.

        • For vanilla cis hetero sex it doesn’t apply since the man is always the top and the woman is always the bottom.