This question came about over a discussion my brother and I had about whether dogs should be on leashes when outside. We both agreed that yes, they should, for several reasons, but that’s not the point.

Let’s use a hypothetical to better illustrate the question. Imagine that there’s a perfume - vanilla, for example - that doesn’t bother you at all (you don’t like nor dislike it), but that is very upsetting to some people, and can even cause some adverse reactions (allergies or something). In this hypothetical, based on the negative effects, you agree that vanilla perfumes should be banned. Currently, however, they are allowed.

You’re walking down the street, and randomly smell someone passing you by and they’re wearing a vanilla perfume.

Would that upset you? Why, or why not?


My answer is yes, without a doubt. Even though the smell itself doesn’t bother me, the fact someone would wear that perfume and not only potentially upset others, but put them in danger, is upsetting.

My brother, however, would say no! He couldn’t explain his reasoning to me.

I know this is a little convoluted, but I hope I got my question across.

  • @Nikls94@lemmy.world
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    Nah. Only when I need to be upset to fit in socially. Would that hypothetical vanilla smell upset me? Nah. They probably bought it before it went illegal, maybe even hoarded it because they like it.

    But if it was socially needed to be upset about that to gain something, I’d probably be. That’s why I agreed to have it banned in the first place, because the situation at that time made it socially useful.

    I think I’m kind of autistic/sociopathic? Didn’t get testet yet lol