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@UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml • 9 months ago

How come older people like to act like furries are this outlandish idea but the thought of being with a mermaid has been around a lot longer

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How come older people like to act like furries are this outlandish idea but the thought of being with a mermaid has been around a lot longer

@UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml • 9 months ago
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  • @JackDark@lemmy.world
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    Because people didn’t dress up as mermaids and go to cons and express how deep down inside they truly are a mermaid, and have a high likelihood of fucking someone else who also felt the same way.

    • Zeke
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      Not all furries believe themselves to be or want to be animals. It’s a simple interest in anthropomorphic animal art. You’re thinking of therians.

      • @otp@sh.itjust.works
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        I don’t think many people had “a thing” for mermaids though. It was just another human creature with boobs. I don’t think most people thought about it any deeper than that

        • @angrystego@lemmy.world
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          It’s always a minority thing. Just like with furries.

      • @Taalnazi@lemmy.world
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        2•9 months ago

        Not to be confused with therians, a taxonomic group.

    • @Drivebyhaiku@lemmy.world
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      Uh… I hate to tell you this but people absolutely dress as mermaids and do conventions… There’s a whole home industry of people who make custom silicon tails.

      https://aquamermaid.com/blogs/news/mermaid-convention?srsltid=AfmBOoofN82kC8kQ_774E8rKcE1-Mi9CBZXEfvIqLckEK1cq7bXWHFum

      https://www.themernation.com/silicone-tail

      • @NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml
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        9 months ago

        Huh. New kink unlocked.

    • @multifariace@lemmy.world
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      I happened to be staying in Key West at the same time as a convention. There absolutely are people who believe they are mermaids.

  • @mycodesucks@lemmy.world
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    To be fair, I think people looked at the folks who were into mermaids as outlandish too. “Been around for a long time” doesn’t mean the same thing as “totally accepted socially”.

    • @hitmyspot@aussie.zone
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      But weren’t mermaids seen as dangerous, irresistible sirens also. So the blame was on the evil mermaid, not the person.

      • @Cataphract@lemmy.ml
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        Shaggy the pirate over here

        • @hitmyspot@aussie.zone
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          Picture this, we were both butt naked, banging on the sea bed floor.

          • @eezeebee@lemmy.ca
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            3•9 months ago

            She caught me with the flounder

            Wasn’t me

            Saw us making chowder

            Wasn’t me

  • @pjwestin@lemmy.world
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    I mean, the point of a mermaid isn’t that it’s a sexy looking fish, it’s that other than its tail, it looks like beautiful human women. In some stories, sailors don’t even realize they’re taking to mermaids because their tails are underwater. Also, mermaids were generally considered bad omens or malicious entities, and when they did seduce humans, it was usually to kill them, so it’s not like the folklore was very pro-mermaid sex.

  • @wewbull@feddit.uk
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    26•9 months ago

    Somebody saying “I am a mermaid” would be looked at strangely too.

    • @BruceTwarzen@lemm.ee
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      And dressing as a mermaid and going to mermaid convention to fuck other mermaids.

      • @angrystego@lemmy.world
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        That would be strange. Mermaids don’t fuck each other, they get famously fucked by sailors.

        • @toastal@lemmy.ml
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          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UuMCoWGhsYI

          • NostraDavid
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            I was more thinking of Melanie’s Milk of the Siren (Warning: depiction of rape, revenge, and gore, not necessarily in that order. I don’t normally give off warnings, but this video goes 0-100 REAL fucking fast).

    • @angrystego@lemmy.world
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      I don’t think a sexy woman saying she’s a mermaid would get strange looks.

  • @CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social
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    Furries aren’t as recent as people tend to think either I might point out, the subculture has existed in some form since like the 80s to my understanding, it’s just more popular and visible these days.

    • Cadeillac
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      A lot longer than that. Let me dig and see if I can find the reply someone sent me a while ago

      Edit: Tracked it down

      • @CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social
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        Oh I mean, yeah, anthro characters are probably older than civilization, but I meant the furry fandom as a specific subculture rather than specifically the subject it is centered around.

        • Cadeillac
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          My b

  • nudny ekscentryk
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    Probably because furries are a fetish and mermaids come from mythology

    • @yetAnotherUser@discuss.tchncs.de
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      50% of mythology is just fetish, just check out Greek mythology. People most definitely masturbated to mythology in the past based on the amount of fetish oozing out of the stories.

      You can’t tell me the ancient Greek equivalent to furries didn’t think Zeus transforming into animals and fucking was hot.

      • @waka@discuss.tchncs.de
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        Can confirm. Watching 50 Shades of Greek told me way too many aspects of the Greek mythology. The Intro alone sums it up perfectly.

    • @angrystego@lemmy.world
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      Mermaids mythology originated as sailors’ fetish.

  • @kitnaht@lemmy.world
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    I mean, the mermaid is missing the part I like the most…

    • @Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de
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      You want the other kind of mermaid…

      Mermaid

      • @kitnaht@lemmy.world
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        8•9 months ago

        Those are some nice legs…

        • @Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de
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          9•9 months ago

          Slayers is a great anime

    • @superkret@feddit.org
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      14•9 months ago

      the fur?

    • @AlternatePersonMan@lemmy.world
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      The cloaca?

    • @mwproductions@lemmy.world
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      This seems like a good place to leave this…

  • @BCsven@lemmy.ca
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    Probably because old folks know that mermaids are a myth and don’t identify as mermaids ( although ai think I saw a docuseries about a 30ish year old thinking he was one) Where as furries bleed the line between what might be fetish realm, and what might be some people actually believing/thinking they are a furry animal–which would be considered a delusion.

  • @ChicoSuave@lemmy.world
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    12•9 months ago

    My brother in Christ, werewolves existed for at least 150 years and shape shifting goes back hundreds more. A beast that becomes a person… What could that possibly be for? A person becoming a beast is easy and the not weird part of folk history that didn’t upset any kind of established morals. Violence is a part of life. Hot wolf dick that escapes into the night after making sweaty sheets? More difficult to keep as an oral tradition. Well, in stories at least.

    • @PolandIsAStateOfMind@lemmy.ml
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      Egyptian and Mesopotamian ruins are full of furry pics, it’s literally the oldest fandom in the world.

  • Blackout
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    9•9 months ago

    Fucking a fish is ok. I come from a long line of fish fuckers. My father fucked fish, his father did too. It’s those sheep fuckers you cant trust.

    • CALIGVLA
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      8•9 months ago

      You from Innsmouth?

      • Blackout
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        Aye, right near the beach boy-ee!

  • @UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
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    9•9 months ago

    Wouldn’t a mermaid be called a scaley?

    • @Drivebyhaiku@lemmy.world
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      Nope, different nerd culture entirely. Seriously, they have their own conventions, instead of fursuits they do custom silicone tails and train to swim in them, have contests and pagents and things. There’s basically no overlap between the two communities. Scaleys are folk in the fursuit community who do dragon and lizard personas.

      I have odd connections. Being in the film industry I have friends through props depts who do furry cons and one of my coworkers does underwater photography for people in the Mermaid subculture.

  • @GeneralEmergency@lemmy.world
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    Because a lot of furry hate is just socially acceptable homophobia.

    • Drusas
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      I don’t think the broader populace has any link between the two of them in their minds.

  • @PolandIsAStateOfMind@lemmy.ml
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    Now ask them about reversed mermaid

  • The Menemen
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    I personally don’t really care that much, but I guess this is mostly about “living stuff out openly” vs. “keeping your fetish in non-public spaces”.

    Yes, there are public mermaid events, but I don’t think those are perceived as less weird.

  • @angrystego@lemmy.world
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    Being a furry is not common. What’s not common is treated as strange and potentionally harmful.

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