Just came across this question on reddit and tbh…i don’t know

People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don’t know how to speak, i don’t smile often, i’m shy, i look very judgemental or i’m just too egotistic…so i don’t know if i’m actually someone worth hanging out with

And no i didn’t make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

I don’t know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don’t really hold back against me

So what about y’all?

  • @unicornBro@sh.itjust.works
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    108 days ago

    I would hang out with myself and get a lot done. We’d code an app, make a podcast for antisocial people, and plant trees.

    We’d agree to use the same encrypted messenger.

    I’ve never been good at socializing and it just makes me exhausted.

    • @pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip
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      68 days ago

      We’d agree to use the same encrypted messenger.

      You’ve revealed the real reason we need cloning technology. It would be glorious.

  • @quediuspayu@lemmy.world
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    910 days ago

    Probably yes, I talk to myself all the time and my sense of humour happens to be pretty similar to mine. At the very least is worth a try.

    • @200ok@lemmy.world
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      19 days ago

      Agreed! We both like the same shows… never fighting about what to have for dinner… it’s great

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠
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    910 days ago

    One-on-one? Sure, I’m hilarious.

    In a group? No. I’m an attention hog, I don’t need the competition.

    • Victor
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      9 days ago

      Maybe use the opportunity to audit your behavior. Give others some room and shit. Could be a thing.

  • @thisisdee@lemmy.world
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    59 days ago

    I wouldn’t initiate or invite, but if I just happen to be in the same room with myself it would be fine. It would be mostly quiet and we do our own thing, or the occasional silly philosophical or metaphorical discussions but probably nothing real or deep. Or maybe it’ll be a free therapy session, having 2 brains figure out my emotions

  • @GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
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    59 days ago

    I would love to hangout with myself. I’m quiet, calm, and introspective IRL.

    I don’t have any friends because I’m disappointed in people my own age. I’d hang out with people 20-30 years older than me, but they’re all dead soooo…

  • @LilB0kChoy@midwest.social
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    59 days ago

    No. Spending time around people different from myself offers me different perspectives, interesting conversations etc.

    Hanging out with someone exactly the same would be like living in an echo chamber with a yes man.

  • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮
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    9 days ago

    I would have an orgy with myself if I had a cloning machine.

    I would try out for RLCS with my 3-me-team in Rocket League.

    I would never wonder where my team mates are in The Finals, because now they are also me.