Asking for a friend

  • YappyMonotheist@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    It has something to do with your “gender ideology” at least, and I doubt most regular shmegular women are looking for a man who’s even thinking about that kind of stuff (or wanting to “feel cute”, like, what?). I’ll ask my wife and a couple of friends and I’ll post the replies here when I have the time, I think it might be better.

    Edit: Wife - “No. Why would you ask me such a stupid question?” / “If I wanted to be with a woman, I would be with an attractive woman, not a man dressed up as a woman!” / “I can live alongside it, separately, but I don’t want it.”

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        Of course you’re free, and no one is legally allowed to lock you up or restrict you in whatever way to stop you from wearing crop tops and skirts, lol, that’s not the conversation here. And I’d rather you said “it’s not immoral for me to dress like a girl” than going for the “I do what I want, you’re not my dad!” line, at least it shows more maturity.

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          What is the conversation here? Also, I don’t dress like a girl. I dress like me. And I wasn’t ever concerned with morality.

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            Which members of society overwhelmingly wear skirts and crop tops? Why do you think you’re asking this question?! 🙄 And the conversation is not about whether you can or cannot do it, but what that says about you as a self-proclaimed heterosexual man and whether women as a whole will view it and the attitudes and ideology behind it positively or negatively.

        • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          You’re not one to decide another’s life, or to determine morality. What is moral depends on the time and the person.

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            Did I put chains on him? A gun to his head for him to do my bidding? Also, that final statement seems like you’re the one “defining morality”! 🫩