• Smuuthbrane
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    1801 year ago

    Bees have a stinger, and “bird” has been a slang term for a woman (like, what, 1920-1950s?).

    Regards, I agree that’s needlessly vague, and just about to the point of useless.

    • @grrgyle@slrpnk.net
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      341 year ago

      Wtf

      Alternate comment: I love how you need to internalize 100 years of sexism before you can relieve yourself

      • Smuuthbrane
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        171 year ago

        You’re using logic in a situation where someone has to pee badly.

    • Ekky
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      111 year ago

      Thank you for the explanation.

      As someone not too familiar with American cultures, I’d probably make an assumption and go for the (to me) more masculine bird over the docile and flower loving bee, since bees have stingers that they normally would never use and birds have beaks/peckers.

        • Ekky
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          31 year ago

          Hmm, well, I have heard women being compared to singing birds (or more degrading as vultures or pen of hens if in group), but I’ve more often heard women being romantically compared to bees or flowers. Though, I don’t think I’ve ever heard men being compared to bees, but often to birds (eagles, vultures, seagulls, etc.).

          Might also be local culture, as I usually think of harmony, nature, and perhaps matriarchy when pondering bees, while birds seem much more gender neutral, like, standoff-ish, elegant, brutal, impulsive, egoistic, even presented as predatory and evil in children movies and some media.

          So, using common stereotyping, you can see where I’m coming from.

        • Smuuthbrane
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          11 year ago

          Maybe that’s where I heard it? Dunno, it’s certainly not current by any stretch.

    • @MadBob@feddit.nl
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      41 year ago

      Odd that so many people are coming out the woodwork to say they didn’t know Britons fairly often call women birds.

      • @chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        51 year ago

        I’ve heard dame used more often than bird myself. Honestly, not sure I’ve actually heard bird used… it’s like a vague sense of “I think I knew that… right?” and my brain shrugs back.