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@WackyTabbacy42069@reddthat.com to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml • 2 years ago

What is the most attractive non-physical characteristic someone can have?

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What is the most attractive non-physical characteristic someone can have?

@WackyTabbacy42069@reddthat.com to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml • 2 years ago
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  • @dan1101@lemm.ee
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    80•2 years ago

    Kindness

    • @Kindnessworks@lemmy.ml
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      9•2 years ago

      I agree ; -)

  • Jeena
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    71•2 years ago

    Intelligence

    • @WackyTabbacy42069@reddthat.comOP
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      I so feel this. Whenever someone has a smart niche, whether it’s just reading a lot or being skilled at something like maths, they become sooo much more attractive to me

  • @kambusha@feddit.ch
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    68•2 years ago

    Curiosity for things

    • Otter
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      6•2 years ago

      Yep, even if someone doesn’t know something it’s perfect if they’re open to learning more :)

      They don’t have to be interested in every topic, it’s the openness that goes a long way

  • Lettuce eat lettuce
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    Passion for something. It′s such a turnoff when you are talking to somebody and they aren’t interested in anything.

    Current events? Meh. Books? Meh. Films/Shows? Meh.

    I don’t care if it’s stamp collecting or chewing gum flavors or the history of wallpaper design, just be passionate or interested in something. At least we can converse for while on that topic.

    • @Hazzia@discuss.tchncs.de
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      deleted by creator

      • Lettuce eat lettuce
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        5•2 years ago

        Lol! Everything in moderation I suppose. But at least if I had that interaction with somebody, I would have an interesting story to tell people haha.

      • @Ubettawerk@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        4•2 years ago

        I’m actually pretty enthusiastic about psyllium husk supplements so you have my attention!

    • @xilliah@beehaw.org
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      1•2 years ago

      It’s from China. Wallpaper I mean.

      Yes I looked it up. Your joke made me cry.

  • @pornhubfan@sh.itjust.works
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    45•2 years ago

    Sense of humor

    • Overzeetop
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      6•2 years ago

      I married my wife because she was the first person to teach me to laugh at myself.

    • wilberfan
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      1•2 years ago

      First thing I thought of.

  • Dr. Wesker
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    44•2 years ago

    A rich family.

    • @CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
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      deleted by creator

  • @Rottcodd@lemmy.ninja
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    40•2 years ago

    To borrow the new age term, an old soul.

    There are just people who possess a sort of cynically detached understanding of the world and people. They aren’t fired by largely pointless passion or desire, they’re intelligent and perceptive enough to generally understand things and emotionally mature enough to generally accept them and they have a way of just sort of gliding through life, maintaining a relatively even keel instead of getting distracted and disconcerted by irrelevancies.

    Every single person I’ve ever known who was like that has been or is special to me.

    • fishcurry509
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      I love your way of describing it, more than anything else!

  • @vd1n@sh.itjust.works
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    36•2 years ago

    General open-mindedness/respect/mindfullness.

    • @STUPIDVIPGUY@sopuli.xyz
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      5•2 years ago

      Yes mindfulness. Self awareness.

  • @argv_minus_one@beehaw.org
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    Authorship of open-source GPU drivers.

    • @somegeek@programming.dev
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      Ah. The dream wife of all geeks

  • Quatity_Control
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    33•2 years ago

    Confidence

  • @SharkEatingBreakfast@sh.itjust.works
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    24•2 years ago

    Having an interest in sharing something with you without making you feel stupid about it.

    Went to about art museum with a guy, and he was super excited to tell me about certain pieces and artists and their history. He was very kind when I asked questions about things that were probably very obvious to a more studious person.

    Was on his arm by the end of the date. Absolutely smitten!

    • @thorbot@lemmy.world
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      Is his other arm available?

      • @SharkEatingBreakfast@sh.itjust.works
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        We broke up eventually and haven’t talked in years, unfortunately. So… maybe!

  • alex [they, il]
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    23•2 years ago

    Can make smart and educated jokes. Will laugh at fart jokes.

  • @WiildFiire@lemmy.world
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    22•2 years ago

    Empathy and I can’t find a single word to describe it but being able to understand and recognize other sides of opinions or arguments/debates, respectfully of course

    • @Zippy@lemmy.world
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      2•2 years ago

      What your opinion of the Republic party and those that support it?

  • Flyberius [comrade/them]
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    21•2 years ago

    Likes cheese

    • radix
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      7•2 years ago

      So, women.

    • @Today@lemm.ee
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      Not a fan of cheese. Feeling lucky i was able to find a mate.

  • queermunist she/her
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    17•2 years ago

    Consent 😎

    • @meyotch@slrpnk.net
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      1•2 years ago

      Ok!

      • queermunist she/her
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        4•2 years ago

        oh fk 🥵

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