• @Dave@lemmy.nz
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      1111 months ago

      That’s honestly pretty amazing that you’ve been here a year and haven’t seen a troll! Though you’re on an instance with a very active and determined admin, there is definitely a difference in how much you see between instances because of how removals work.

    • @Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee
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      1111 months ago

      You guys are pretty proactive about blocking and defederating bad faith instances, or even ones not doing enough to deal with bad actors. You were one of the first to defederate Hexbear, and I think you even defederated world at one point?

          • Cowbee [he/they]
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            1211 months ago

            Here’s a good reddit thread over on r/asktransgender.

            Chasers are dangerous to the trans community and turn people into fetish objects, rather than recognizing them as people. It ignores the desires of trans individuals who wish to be seen as the gender they identify with and explicitly chases trans individuals for their being trans.

            Ie, a transwoman is pursued for being a transwoman and not for being a woman.

            • @Cryophilia@lemmy.world
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              911 months ago

              Hey that was me back when I had a kbin account. I’m the account in the screenshot.

              That was a direct response to someone asking if I would have sex with a trans man. I got accused of being a chaser for saying “sure, I guess, pre-transition” (the first part) and being a transphobe for saying “but I’m not sexually attracted to dicks” (the second part). Note those two accusations are more or less mutually exclusive, but it doesn’t matter because they’re both deeply, incredibly stupid accusations. The mods and admins of blahaj pointed out how incredibly stupid the accusations were, and some people didn’t like being called stupid, so they went back to hexbear. And continued to be stupid.

                  • Cowbee [he/they]
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                    411 months ago

                    Because chasers undermine the expressed gender identity of trans individuals for the sake of their own sexual pleasure. Calling it “transphilic” is just semantical wordplay that dismisses the inherently predatory nature of chasers.

          • OBJECTION!
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            1011 months ago

            A chaser is someone who fetishizes and objectifies trans people.