• @Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee
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    1111 months ago

    You guys are pretty proactive about blocking and defederating bad faith instances, or even ones not doing enough to deal with bad actors. You were one of the first to defederate Hexbear, and I think you even defederated world at one point?

        • Cowbee [he/they]
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          1211 months ago

          Here’s a good reddit thread over on r/asktransgender.

          Chasers are dangerous to the trans community and turn people into fetish objects, rather than recognizing them as people. It ignores the desires of trans individuals who wish to be seen as the gender they identify with and explicitly chases trans individuals for their being trans.

          Ie, a transwoman is pursued for being a transwoman and not for being a woman.

          • @Cryophilia@lemmy.world
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            911 months ago

            Hey that was me back when I had a kbin account. I’m the account in the screenshot.

            That was a direct response to someone asking if I would have sex with a trans man. I got accused of being a chaser for saying “sure, I guess, pre-transition” (the first part) and being a transphobe for saying “but I’m not sexually attracted to dicks” (the second part). Note those two accusations are more or less mutually exclusive, but it doesn’t matter because they’re both deeply, incredibly stupid accusations. The mods and admins of blahaj pointed out how incredibly stupid the accusations were, and some people didn’t like being called stupid, so they went back to hexbear. And continued to be stupid.

                • Cowbee [he/they]
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                  411 months ago

                  Because chasers undermine the expressed gender identity of trans individuals for the sake of their own sexual pleasure. Calling it “transphilic” is just semantical wordplay that dismisses the inherently predatory nature of chasers.

                  • Iapar
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                    311 months ago

                    I don’t get it.

                    How is it undermining that and not affirming? I mean to fetishise a group is wrong, I get that and that is also my opinion but if they want to fuck a transwoman they want that because she is a woman which affirms the womanhood?

                    And the point is how is it transhate if you like the trans aspect specifically. Doesn’t make sense to me.

                    It is not a wordplay it is what those words mean. Phobic means something like hate or fear and phile means something like love or attraction.

        • OBJECTION!
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          1011 months ago

          A chaser is someone who fetishizes and objectifies trans people.